Wife Material & wives.
Husband Material & Husbands
Well this #Pigstory and #LifeGoals journey requires me to be biased in my research, study and learning in relation to the season😂 And ofcourse share my lessons & experience the Kriscalf Exposed way (Military and Aviation stories will be back 😂)
Society has made us believe that “Wife Material”s * are the ideal Wives… I learnt something along the way.
Any Woman any girl any lady… Is a wife Material. Any man any boy is a husband material.
What’s a material? Quick Google search tells me it’s “the matter from which a thing is or can be made.”… It gets a little more rough, – Matter… substance… Stuff… Well this comes from the basic/ majority’s understanding of who a wife/ husband is from society (a wife/ hubby is the result of a ring/ saying ‘I do’ / the end of the government’s six months or something/ the parents know us/ a baby came 🙄)
This means that any lady is a wife Material, that which needs work to become a wife. Meaning even before the wedding ceremony… That woman is a wife already, the wedding is just commiting before God to undertake those responsibilities and His blessings upon that Holy union. Same thing for a husband. All men & boys are husband material pending processing to be Husbands. Same description above.
So here is the catch. Husband materials will always identify wife materials. And then… (Post processing) Only Husbands will recognize Wives. 👌🏾
This means that husband materials should work on themselves and become Husbands and the wife materials to recognize each other and become Wives and then… God will bring them together to be Husband & Wife.
Contrary to popular belief, its not only women who should work on themselves to be Wives. Men too need to work even harder to be Husbands. They’ve got a heavier role. So how does one transform from “X material” to the X? 🤔 The Word of God. – The Bible. You can read as many motivational books or listen to as many “so called” experienced peers as you can but still shut out the God factor and remain boys and girls. That’s a personal choice.👌🏽☝🏽